There may be a light at the end of the tunnel.
Grace and I had another lactation appointment today. She weighed 10 lbs, 3.5 oz., which is not only above her birth weight, but also in the range of the weight she should have had at the age of three weeks if she hadn't lost too much weight in the first place. So that was encouraging. The lactation consultant said that she needed me to have a good milk supply and for Grace to be a healthy baby, and she's happy that we have both. ("She's the picture of health," was her quote.) So that's good, too.
Now our job is to wean Gracie from the extra milk she's getting at the end of each feeding. She needs to nurse well enough to continue to gain weight. I'm supposed to give her only about an ounce after each nursing session now. We'll see how she does. I'm also going to cut back a bit on pumping and hope that Grace does a better job nursing so that I won't need to pump. I don't think this would be possible without the scale from Linnea, so thanks again for the loan, Linnea! I have to weigh Gracie every day, and that would not really be feasible without a scale at home.
Thank you, everyone, for your prayers. We are hoping to be adjusting to normal life with a newborn in a week or two. We'll keep you updated!