I think I completely missed the month of October. Jeff's busy season ended, and then we prepared for, took, and recovered from our trip. I blinked and it was Halloween, and here we are in November.
The holidays are busy for everyone, but adding Jonathan's birthday (and mine) to December makes it a particularly busy month for our family. I try to start thinking about his party a few weeks beforehand so I'm mentally prepared. We'll do a very small family party for him again this year. Jonathan and I were talking about his party, and he told me that he wanted a white cake with blue frosting since the cake is for a boy, and blue is a boy color. He said he wants brown frosting letters that say "Jonathan's Birthday Party" on them. He also wants chocolate chip cookies and chocolate ice cream. (Last year, he told me for months and months that he just wanted pumpkin pie for his birthday. I guess that's the difference between four and five!) He told me I could wrap streamers around the railing and use whatever color I wanted!
Jeff and I are going to borrow/steal an idea from Ava's parents: we are going to suggest on the party invitation that our guests who want to bring a gift bring a children's book to donate to Jonathan's future elementary school's library instead. I talked to Jonathan about this today, and he got really excited about it. He hadn't realized that schools have libraries just for kids, and he thought that bringing books as gifts for the library would be a great idea.
I can hardly believe he's almost five, but I'm not going to get ahead of myself-I'm just going to enjoy four for now. The weather is beautiful, and Jeff planted a winter garden yesterday. We're hoping for some winter veggies this year, and we'll try not to let them get away from us like the zucchini did!